A young girl about to go on a 1st date with her boyfriend was being tutored by her grandma.
“He will try to kiss you, allow him.”
“He will try to cuddle you, allow him.”
“He will try to lay you down and get on top of you, don’t allow him”.
The girl asked : grandma, why?.
Grandma said : “because if you do that, you have allowed him to disgrace you and all your family”.
Girl said : “okay” and she left on her date.
Several hours later she returned and grandma asked “how did it go?”.
Girl : “exactly as you said except when he laid me down and tried to disgrace our family,
*I turned him over, got on top of him and disgraced his family!*